Why is America the worst country to be an ambitious, educated, worldly-thinking,sophisticated straight male?

I noticed these are qualities all young hot(fat excluded) college women in America dislike in a man. I notice they like only uneducated, drunk or drug addicted, lazy, loud talking, jock/muscle or other type of gay looking men. This seems to be the norm of Anglo-Saxon culture and/or lousy parenting by American mothers.