My fiance's daughter wants to denounce him as a father.......?

she sounds pretty selfish and doesnt understand the whole situation. She was used to gifts and him paying for things before he got settled, but now he is more settled and the actions cannot continue. She blames you, but really he needs to talk to her about the situation. If she refuses to talk to him have him write her a letter. She is old enough now to understand a few more things. if all else fails he should stop paying for the phone and tell her it is because she wont communicate. It sounds harsh, but you and him cannot just give up because she wants stuff from him!