What is your view on this? Figure skating parents?

I'm almost positive half of the people who read this question wished that they could have started at age two, but I think alot of us don't realize how hard it is to be at your level. Right now, Im not sure if your mom does either. I think she understands some, but only you know how hard it is. I think alot times parents try to live out their dreams through their children. But, If you're not enjoying it, I think it's time to talk. Tell her how you feel. Let her know that youre not going to completely stop skating, just tone it down. But remember when you talk to her no whining or yelling. The more mature you sound, the more of a chance she will listen. Someone else suggested a letter, and I think that it a great idea.If she doesn't listen see if you can compromise somehow. Also, if you decide to stop competitively figure skating and you do it more for fun, you're going to disappoint her. But, there is really nothing you can do about it. She will eventually come to realize that you're happy skating for fun. She will eventually learn to accept your decision. Maybe talk to your coach first and tell him/ her how you feel. It will be hard, but he/she may be able to help you to confront your mom. But remember, you have a chance of making it to nationals or olympics. I'm almost positive that is every skaters dream. Think back to when you used love it, now think about how you feel now. Would stopping the competitive route make you love it again or in a few months or years regret your decision. Think about it, pray about it, then go talk to your mom, even if you decide to keep skating competitively- you might be able to to talk to your mom about loosening up a little. But whatever you choose listen to your heart... Either way tell your mom how you feel, and never give up no matter what you decide :) good luck